remember

      When somebody is locked into being controlling or fearful or selfish, it’s easy to criticize until you remember that you have your own prisons.

“Remember those in prison as if you were there yourself.” Hebrews 3:13

Father, please give me compassionate eyes today.

 

 

that poisonous passion

      When you envy somebody, his good makes you sad (and sometimes mad). When you stop envying him, his good makes you glad. Sometimes you don’t realize how sick you were until you get well.     

“When at any time you find in your heart motions of envy towards any person, . . . expel the venom of that poisonous passion.”  William Law

“Rid yourself of . . . envy. . . .” 1 Peter 2:1

a gift of not doing

      When you’re really listening to somebody, you’re not doing a lot of other things.

“[A] gift of not doing – not interrupting, not attempting to solve problems, not prematurely or inappropriately advising, not assuming that what has worked for you will work for others.” David Benner

“[W]illing to listen. . . .” Ezekiel 3:7

out of her poverty

      When an angry person doesn’t yell or a shy person says one small thing or a grouchy person doesn’t grouse, it might not look like much, but maybe at that moment she’s giving everything she has.

“[Jesus] watched attentively as the crowds put money into the temple treasury. . . . ‘[T]his poor widow gave more than all the others. . . . They all gave out of their surplus, but she, out of her poverty, gave everything she had. . . .’” Mark 12:41, 43-44

Father, when what somebody contributes doesn’t look like much, please help me to see and appreciate through Your eyes.

 

the truest thing of all

      On very dark days, you feel so alone and hopeless that it’s easy to forget the truest thing of all: you aren’t.

“Though it is black and we can’t see and our world seems to be free-falling and we feel utterly alone, Christ is most present to us. . . .” Ann Voscamp

“If I make my bed in the depths, You are there. . . . Even there Your hand will guide me and . . . hold me.” Psalm 139:8, 10

 

the critical thing

      When you start to get annoyed or discouraged because somebody forgot to thank you, it’s a good time to ask yourself who you’ve forgotten to thank lately.

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye but pay no attention to the log in your own eye?” Luke 6:41

“[T]he critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.” G. K. Chesterton