a different street

      When you’ve been walking down the same street and falling in the same hole for a long time, it feels really good to start walking down a different street.

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results.” Unknown

“God gave boldness and courage. . . .” 1 Thessalonians 2:2

a shining wonder

      When somebody sticks with you through thick and thin (no matter how long thin lasts), it is a shining wonder.

“There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” Proverbs 18:24

“And say that my glory was I had such friends.” William Butler Yeats

the Hound of Heaven?

      What if you (and the friend or relative you’re so worried about) are being pursued for good every day?

“Surely Your goodness and lovingkindness pursue me every day of my life.” Psalm 23:6

“The Hound of Heaven” Francis Thompson

really giving

      If it bothers me when people don’t appreciate the time (or effort or whatever) that I give, maybe I'm not really giving.

“Unhealthy [people] don’t really give; they invest.” Clarence Thomson

“Do good to others . . . without expecting to get anything in return.” Luke 6:35

 

a crying need

      When somebody truly hears you (instead of jumping in with answers and advice), it heals.

There’s a crying need to be heard – not just listened to, but truly heard.” A wise friend

“Giving an answer before hearing is foolish and dishonoring.” Proverbs 18:13

becoming real

      Becoming healthy and whole is like walking up a spiral staircase. You keep coming back around to the same old issues, but every glance over the railing reminds you that the bottom floor is farther away than it used to be.

“Progress, not perfection.” A twelve-step slogan

“I will give thanks. . . .” Psalm 30:12