Nobody measures up. The more honest you get, the more "nots" you see -- not good enough, not kind enough, not loving enough. That's okay as long as you remember to end your list with the only "not" that really matters -- not yet.
“God can’t hide away his work till it is finished, as I do my verses, and we ought to take care what we say about it. He wants to do something better with people than people think.” George MacDonald
“I am confident that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion. . . .” Philippians 1:6