As long as we’re trying to convince each other (and ourselves) that we’re fine, it’s you in your corner and me in mine.  Admitting that we’re not lets us be friends.   

“Jesus speaks as if we are all brokenhearted. We would do well to trust His perspective. . . ." John Eldredge

[T]he Lord . . . sent [Christ] to heal the brokenhearted. . . .” Isaiah 61:1