Some days feelings cooperate, and other days they act like teenagers. Either way, loving somebody is one small choice after another.
“[F]eelings are not what God principally cares about. Christian love . . . is an affair of the will. He will give us feelings of love if He pleases. We cannot create them for ourselves. . . .” C. S. Lewis
“I have set before you life and death. . . . Choose life. . . .” Deuteronomy 30:19