If the unlovely things in the person beside you aren’t the real person, why not look deeper?
“If any one say, . . . ‘Can you deny that that person is unlovely?’ . . . I answer . . . ‘The thing that now makes you dislike him is separable from him . . . [and] makes him . . . so much less himself. . . .’” George Macdonald
“Why do you regard your brother with contempt?” Romans 14:10