If God is demanding and disapproving and disappointing, it makes good sense to keep your distance. If He is an ocean of everything you’re thirsty for, it doesn’t.
“[God] whose infinite being is . . . [a] never-ceasing, . . . overflowing ocean of . . . delight, blessing, goodness, patience, and mercy. . . .” William Law
“If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me. . . .” John 7:37