your own backyard

     The more you focus on what’s wrong with somebody else, the more frustrated and stuck you feel. Life gets a lot easier when you decide to leave him (or her) alone and use your energy to change the one person you can change: you.

“Don’t pick on _____, jump on _____’s failures, criticize _____’s faults. . . . Be easy on _____; you’ll find life a lot easier.” From Luke 6:37-38

Play in your own backyard.  Unattributed